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Thursday, August 20, 2009

The 4 Most Common Dating Mistakes Women Make

The 4 Most Common Dating Mistakes Women Make

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Wednesday, August 19, 2009

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Monday, August 17, 2009

Yeast Infection Secret – Reviewed



Yeast Infection Secret – Reviewed

Did you know that you can now cure your yeast infection for good? I wouldn’t have believed it either before I found Yeast Infection Secret founded by fellow long time sufferer Jenny Simmons.

You see before I found Jennys method I had tried everything. I had been prescribed by my medical practitioner creams and pills to try and solve the problem. These would cure the disease for a short time, only for it to return worse time and time again! I must have gone through this process for well over 10 years which had made my life hell.

Enough was enough, I was desperate to rid myself of these irritating, painful rashes. I was just giving the pharmacy my money for short term results. I was in need of serious help. One day I was just browsing the internet and came across Yeast Infection Secrets. Now I was a little sceptical about online products due to the amount of scams out there, but I thought what the heck. I’d spent a fortune on creams and pills from so called reputable pharmaceutical companies only to receive poor results.

What I found was great and I haven’t looked back since. You see Yeast Infection Secret contains vital information these companies aren’t telling. I put Jennys methods to work and haven’t had an outbreak for over a year now.

Yeast Infection Secrets works by treating the cure from within. Yeast Infections occur from the inside and therefore can only be cured by using internal methods.

If you go and see you medical practitioner, as most of you have, you know that they will prescribe one of a variety of creams to treat your Yeast Infection externally. These creams are not a permanent cure but just a temporary one. They work by killing off the external bacteria temporarily for a few weeks. Then before you know it, the infection comes back again worse than before.

You will never get rid of your yeast infection this way and most people make this mistake over and over again. The only way to permanently cure your yeast Infection is to neutralize the internal environment that encourages is growth, not by killing the external yeast.

Verdict:

If you are in the same predicament as I was then I recommend you have a look at Yeast Infect Secret. I took the chance and haven’t looked back since and feel healthier than ever. You can find the full story here.

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Saturday, August 15, 2009

Aphrodisiac foods Top Ingrediants.


Food List

Aniseed

A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.

Asparagus
Given it's phallic shape, asparagus is frequently enjoyed as an aphrodisiac food. Feed your lover boiled or steamed spears for a sensuous experience. The Vegetarian Society suggests "eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful affect".

Almond
A symbol of fertility throughout the ages. The aroma is thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat.

Arugula
Arugula or "rocket" seed has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. This ingredient was added to grated orchid bulbs and parsnips and also combined with pine nuts and pistachios. Arugula greens are frequently used in salads and pasta.

Asafetida
Any Indian dried, powedere herb used as a sexual stimulant in Ayurvedic medicine. The herb has a very strong, garlicy flavor.

Avocado
The Aztecs called the avocado tree "Ahuacuatl which translated means "testicle tree". The ancients thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled the male's testicles. This is a delicious fruit with a sensuous texture. Serve in slices with a small amount of Balsamic vinegar and freshly ground pepper.

Bananas
The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the "Apple" they started covering their "nudity" with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.

Basil (sweet basil)
Is said to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also said to produce a general sense of well being for body and mind.


Broccoli Rabe (And Other Mustard Greens)
The ground seeds of various plants in the brassica family were believed to increase virility. In the case of broccoli rabe its more likely a myth created to get people to eat this bitter vegetable.

Chocolate
The Aztecs referred to chocolate "nourishment of the Gods". Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat or let us temp you with our recipe for Chocolate Espresso Pots de creme.

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(Set of 4 pots de creme cups with matching tray)

Carrots
Another good reason to eat carrots--believed to be a stimulant to the male. The phallus shaped carrot has been associated with stimulation since ancient times and was used by early Middle Eastern royalty to aid seduction. High vitamins and beta-carotene. Perhaps a justification for a piece of carrot cake?

Coffee
Caffeine is a well-know stimulant but remember, too much and it becomes a depressant. Serve small amounts of rich dark coffee in special little demitasse cups. Coffee stimulates both the body and the mind so partake of a little in preparation for an "all-nighter".

Coriander (Cilantro seed)
The book of The Arabian nights tells a tale of a merchant who had been childless for 40 years and but was cured by a concoction that included coriander. That book is over 1000 years old so the history of coriander as an aphrodisiac dates back far into history. Cilantro was also know to be used as an "appetite" stimulant.

Fennel

In the 1930's fennel was found to be a source of natural plant estrogens. Use of fennel as an aphrodisiac dates back to the Egyptian times where it was used as "libido enhancement".


Figs

An open fig is thought to emulate the female sex organs and traditionally thought of as sexual stimulant. A man breaking open a fig and eating it in front of his lover is a powerful erotic act. Serve fresh Black Mission figs in a cool bowl of water as it is done in Italy and be sure to eat with your fingers!

Garlic
The 'heat' in garlic is said to stir sexual desires. Make sure you and your partner share it together. Garlic has been used for centuries to cure everything from the common cold to heart ailments. This is a good time for moderation. Enjoy a pasta with a lightly garlicky sauce and it and lead up to something spicy in the bedroom later.

Ginger
Ginger root raw, cooked or crystallized is a stimulant to the circulatory system. Perhaps a stir-fry with freshly grated ginger can stir something spicy up in the bedroom later.

Honey
Many medicines in Egyptian times were based on honey including cures for sterility and impotence. Medieval seducers plied their partners with Mead, a fermented drink made from honey. Lovers on their "Honeymoon" drank mead and it was thought to s "sweeten" the marriage.

Liquorice (licorice)
The Chinese have used licorice for medicinal purposes since ancient times. The essence of the Glycyrrhiza glabra (licorice) plan, glycrrhizin, is 50 time sweeter than sugar. Chewing on bits of licorice root is said to enhance love and lust. It is particularly stimulating to woman.

Mustard
Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire. Prepare a tenderloin roast (filet mignon) for two with a mustard and peppercorn sauce.

Nutmeg
Nutmeg was highly prized by Chinese women as an aphrodisiac. In quantity nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect. A light sprinkling of the spice in a warm pumpkin soup can help spice up your evening.

Oysters
Oysters were documented as a aphrodisiac food by the Romans in the second century A.D as mentioned in a satire by Juvenal. He described the wanton ways of women after ingesting wine and eating "giant oysters". An additional hypotheses is that the oyster resembles the "female" genitals. In reality oysters are a very nutritious and high in protein.

Pine Nuts
Zinc is a key mineral necessary to maintain male potency and pine nuts are rich in zinc. Pine nuts have been used to stimulate the libido as far back as Medieval times. Serve pine nut cookies with a dark espresso for a stimulating dessert.

Pineapple
Rich in vitamin C and and is used in the homeopathic treatment for impotence. Add a spear to a sweet Rum drink for a tasty prelude to an evening of passion.

Raspberries and Strawberries
Perfect foods for hand feeding your lover. "Both invite love and are described in erotic literature as fruit nipples" Both are high in vitamin C and make a sweet light dessert.

Truffles
The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch.

Vanilla
The scent and flavor of vanilla is believed to increase lust. According to the Australian Orchid Society, "Old Totonac lore has it that Xanat, the young daughter of the Mexican fertility goddess, loved a Totonac youth. Unable to marry him due to her divine nature, she transformed herself into a plant that would provide pleasure and happiness." Fill tall Champagne glasses to the rim and add a vanilla bean for a heady, bubbly treat.

Wine
A glass or two of wine can greatly enhance a romantic interlude. Wine relaxes and helps to stimulate our senses. Drinking wine can be an erotic experience. Let your eyes feast on the color of the liquid. Caress the glass, savor the taste on your lips. Do remember that excessive alcohol will make you too drowsy for the after-dinner romance. A moderate amount of wine has been said to "arouse" but much more than that amount with have the reverse affect.


Tuesday, August 4, 2009

The Secret of Passionate Lovemaking…

3 Ways To Intensify You Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking3 Ways To Intensify Your
Intimacy During Lovemaking


Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall
lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?


It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn
three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that
will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!


1. Prolong your foreplay


An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it
gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just
human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a
holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.


Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time
under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin
and gaze lovingly into their eyes.


The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for
both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...


2. Try new things with a "twist"


Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new
lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would
definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.


For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head
to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the
magic that made you fall in love in the first place.


3. Play bedroom games


Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun
and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other
tips at the same time too!


Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way

2. Try new things that the game tells you to do


And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be
using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.


Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate
play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll
just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get
excited and unleash some creativity!


So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better
way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.


About the Author:


Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples,"
a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy
to your experience. To read more, Click Here





Monday, August 3, 2009

I Just Luv Crystal Waters - Destination Unknown

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Yes I do Cyber.

So what is it about the Cyber Child?

I guess some of us like to get away from the crowed and experiment.

Well to tell the truth I used to....

I found the experience mostly very interesting. Yes you can get the crazy stranger who you can quickly block, but in the most part it was very entertaining.

In my previous post I spoke about some safety issue online. These are important, but as I said it is the same when you go out to a bar. You need to check out a person for a while before you jump straight in.

Remember you can show a picture of about anything or anyone online. Creating a persona that is larger then life, but personally I think the written nature of cyber allows you quickly to work out where someone is coming from.

I always used to look for that interesting one liner's. Something quirky used to grab my attention. In many cases most people just like to chat. There were times that I didn't take the process very seriously, but then all of a sudden one time I was suddenly taken by surprised about the emotions I suddenly developed from my online chatting. To be honest at the time it threw me into a bit of a spin. I had thought nothing online could really develop into anything of any substance, but it did and it took sometime for me to pull away. I hadn't really even seen this person, so in the end of the day I didn't know whether they were real or not, but that was a real wake up call for me in understanding that falling in love online was more then real.

There are various dating sites online, from your gentle to very explicit. You can determine for yourself what you are comfortable with. Sometimes I think when there is more openness there is less BS, that's just my opinion. Important to protect your own personal information, but having said that I met my current partner online and I probably followed all the wrong rules. I guess to me women have a good sense of intuition, but then again just lucky I guess. We have now been together for over 3 very happy years.

One of the reasons for the success of our connection were a few things. We both had reasonably detailed profiles. They both had extensive likes and dislikes listed and hey they were creative and sincere. That included what we liked sexually. I think that's the gem of the internet, rather then wondering what someone is really like and falling into a relationship, only later to find that they aren't comfortable doing certain things and having those issues effect your long term relationship. The internet from my experience allows you to get a better idea of who you are getting involved with.

Just a couple of notes, singles go for your life, those in relationships I'd suggest talking to your partner about it and including them otherwise it can get nasty and because from what I've found you can fall in love if your not careful even if you think it's just a throw away online. Some might think what's the fun in that , well just a personal warning.

Anyway importantly if you want to find love online, be creative don't just flop your bits out. Work with what you've got. Hey it may even mean you become more aware of yourself in the process. Hey and respect , respect who you are speaking to. I know some find that difficult but don't over stay your welcome and think that they may want to do the same tomorrow. Move on!

If you've never tried it before when finding a new partner then give it a go.

I'd like to here your experiences with online dating good and bad.

Please add your comments below.


Note any really offensive comments will be deleted.

Monday, July 27, 2009

A Women's Gaze.




It is interesting to me that we are effected so dramatically by our background, media and social restraints that a women's sexuality, sensuality is still misunderstood. Now I'm not one to watch 60 minutes as a real source of educated and informed opinion, but forgetting to turn the channel meant that in the background I could hear Bettina Arndt speaking about sex and relationships.

Whether the interview was manipulated to fit into the target market for this program or not, I am continually flabbergasted by this perception that women don't have the same drive for sex as men. Maybe its purely wording that annoys me about this statement, or maybe it's the simplicity of this point of view.

Let me put it like this women to me have just as much sex drive as men, it is the approach that is lacking. It is knowledge that is lacking not drive. Oh and importantly freedom and perception. It is time that the comments made by sex perts like Bettina Arndt's were counter acted by proper research that doesn't just start with the tabloids or basic science.

I know that the mind is a powerful tool and most important for women and sex. It is interesting how Internet dating and other adult dating sites are booming. Why? because when you take away the traditional superficial level of intimacy people naturally need to refine their approach.
It can take some practice and avoidance of your basic trash pervert, but as in life patience is important you start to determine subtleties. For some of us this is easier in the beginning.
Mind you the same warnings apply to online dating and chat as it might at a bar. If you ever agree to meet someone always let a close friend or family member know,. Have your cell phone close, but these are just precautions.

Anyway getting back to subtleties, texting or talking on forums can lead to a creative mind. You can also remain completely anonymous, but warning if you are not single playing around can lead to dangerous liaisons . You are better off involving your partner then keeping it seperate.
This is how my point about women and the mind come in. I love the mind it is one of the most important and powerful sexual tools you can have. It's not how big or small it's how you present it.

To be continued.....tomorrow

Now Don't Run Away...Tantric

Tantric Sexuality - Deep Sexy Chill Out

Using Sexuality is Not Porn.



It is well known through advertising and other agencies that sex sells, but what form of sex sells. Is it graphic or is it subtle? My preference is based on my art background, but I'm not scared of all forms of expression. I agree in regards to some boundaries, but sexuality is not a threat, but a beauty.Sensuality is a powerful tool and brings beauty and joy to many people.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Welcome to Sugar Mumma.

Sometimes I think that this is a classic. I have been told the dreams of girls waiting for that women in the white suit and white limousine to pick them up from the bus shelter as it pours down with rain, whisk them off to a life of bliss and pampering....

Can it be true?

Well I guess anything can be. From shows like the Millionaire bachelors and L Word these represent a fantasy, but are they obtainable ? I know that true love is obtainable and sometimes by chance or accident. To me this can be true for more then just one avenue in life. For instance the most durable performers are not necessarily those who go on Idol, but those who just apply there art to what they do and are passionate about their craft and not necessarily the fame or money that come with it. Many times they are not even thinking about that side until all of a sudden it is thrust upon them.

In some cases they want to run from it, but of-course you have bills to pay and you need a certain amount of fame as an artist to make a living from it. Having said that like all levels of any circumstance in life there are all the variables under the sun.

I'd like to play with this blog explore the fantasy's of beauty and sexuality, look for the most suggested, but non-pornographic sources of suggested sexuality that I can find from classics to modern expressions of erotic essence. Explore the title of Sugar Mumma come with me and explore.

Nina Simone - Ain't Got No...I've Got Life

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